a new set of resolutions -featuring some oldies- and one very special secret resolution. 2009 helped me grow but as I stated earlier, there were lessons to be learned. So for 2010 I have literally started over. I graduated in December with my first Bachelor's degree in Interior Design and a while back (thank you Work Nazi & rude awakening internship) I realized that I wasn't eager to be an Interior Designer -hardly at all.
So in November there was heartbreak (the worst one yet, first guy in 7 years I completely opened up to), facing the fact that if I pursue I.D my realistic option was moving back home and working where I interned (where pay was okay -for the valley- but there were zero benefits and the job was basically "assistant") and dealing with all things "end of the semester" -all nighters, anxiety due to no sleep, no money, kinkos frequent customer, stress... Somehow, in between of all that horrible, really horrible mess I found inspiration. This all came to light in a discussion with one of my best friends about post-grad plans, I told him I pretty much had nothing when he mentioned the idea of getting a second degree. He mentioned that both his degrees ideally help his mega plan, but if for any reason he can't make that plan happen, each degree offered a career. I was inspired -in love with the idea- and immediately thought of Art History. Art History is the only thing that kept my semesters interesting, and it's something I've always been very well in. I get Art History, i love it. IF i pursue Interior Design I know I want to work with either Historic preservation or urban design. Art History doesn't necessarily relate to Interior Design, but it definitely helps -especially with Historic Preservation. Toward the end of the month I reapplied to school and got in, HELLO Degree #2.
I am now an Art History major (with intentions to teach -preferably at college level but baby steps, everyone) and a Writing minor. I'm very excited. The thought of writing papers and analyzing and searching for explanations really just drives me wild! -what can I say, I'm a rebel without a cause! So long FCS, adios all nighters, EFF YOU utility knives.. goodbye to it all! If I've made all my calculations correctly, I should get this degree by Summer 2011. This second degree really won't take long because I just graduated with an Art & Design minor; I earned all credits through Advanced Art History classes =)
BUT. This isn't just about the promise 2010 holds, its about the resolutions... and here is what I hope to successfully complete by the time the year is over:
-Read one book per month.. NO MATTER WHAT! last year I only lasted 3 months but this year will be different. I'm going to make sure to pull through on this wonderful, happiness-inducing resolution! So far I've already completed a book so I might get an early start on February!
-Write in my journal more! Even when I bought my journal, my intention was never to make it a daily log.. my intention was to write whenever I felt inspired.. or whenever I knew exactly what I needed to express. It's a funny writing style my journal has developed, but I'm really down with it. I write it all down, I even wrote a tiny introduction for my journal. I wrote "When I was 12 years old I promised myself that one day I would write it all down: all the good times, bad times, terrible-turned classic times. This book; journal; memoir, has been a long time in the making. All -I told myself- that I needed was the right journal.. there's no fun in typing my heart out. SO with the best journal I could afford, here goes... " I'm really proud of what I have so far and no one in the world has read it. Doubt anyone ever will.. I'm really possessive with it. I hardly let people 100% into my life.. so you can imagine how I'd feel about anyone reading my vulnerable, unthreatened thoughts.
-Write in this blog more.. I thought about starting a blog for a really long time before doing it, and in November I just did it one very late night/early morning. Because of school I really had very little time to make entries... After Thanksgiving I literally got about 2-3hrs of sleep per night (when I was lucky). I had many ideas for my blog, I just didn't have the time. So, yes. This is a resolution I really hope to come through with. I do get ideas often about what to write about and what images to use and what witty comment I can include, I just don't do it. I hope to develop my blog more and once I do that, I will finally let people know about this.
-Drink less soda! I plan on doing this -and have already been failing- by ordering water at restaurants. and along with cutting soda, I also plan on NOT "up sizing" my fast food orders. I can't quit the bad junk cold turkey, so I'm taking baby steps. This resolution isn't my biggest priority, but I do hope to be successful with it!
and for my secret resolution: to keep one foot on the ground and hold steady. I'm a very disillusioned girl and give everyone the benefit of the doubt. This past year I broke my own self-promises and well established rules because I was swept off my feet. Yes, i saw red flags everywhere but I just really thought that this was MY YEAR to be in a relationship. I guess I wanted to be in a relationship so badly that I turned a blind-eye to too many things. Because I hadn't had a boyfriend in about 2 1/2 years I gave it all that I had, more than everything to be honest. I made a real chump of myself and after the heartbreak fizzled away I was left disappointed in myself. I broke all my own rules JUST to say that I had a sweetheart. For 7 years I did an excellent job at keeping every prospect at bay and always keeping one foot out the door. Thanks to my ex, all pride was gone. Because I gave him everything, I was honestly left with nothing.
My plan of attack isn't to rebuild that wall. I don't know what it is to be precise.. I just know to definitely listen to my intuition. My rules are back on, but the games aren't. I'm not in the mood to trust new faces, and I don't want to deal with the ordeal of meeting new people right now. Because he left me with nothing, this fresh start doesn't even feel like it's started yet. I've just got to remember, always remember, BEWARE THE CHARMERS (Rule #1). I've always got to keep my feet on the ground and hold steady.. Not to let disillusions get the best of me. Secret Resolution, I adore you and have faith in you.
So how will they all turn out? I can't wait to find out!